Virginity || A Very Personal Decision

Discussion about virginity …

Virginity is the stage of a person who has not had sexual intercourse. There are some cultural and religious tradition which take special value on this state, predominantly towards unmarried females, associated with notions of personal purity, honor and worth.

What does it mean to be virgin :

Virgin is someone who never had sex. But, different people define virginity in different ways.

  • Some people think that having penis-in-vagina sex for the first time is how you lose your virginity.
  • While some people have had other kinds of sex like oral sex or anal sex
  • Some people believe that sex is the consent of both partner. Rape or sexual assault are not sex.
  • While some people thinks that fingering of the vagina or the anus is also a type of sex.

 

Emotional and physical virgin :

Doctors thinks that no one longer be a virgin. They must give up an emotional attachment to the virginity and engage in physical acts of sex.

Emotional virgin is the person who had raped. It is an emotional sense even if their body has had sex.

Physical virgin is the person who share the body with another person, or give pleasure to another person that involves orgasm or intends to cause orgasm, you have had sex.

The best age of lose virginity :  

Lose of virginity is a great moment in the life of anybody. Many people have different opinion of the topic of virgin age. In an era, girls aged 12 or 13 were already mothers. But, according to the life span and the life style of humans today the perfect age to lose virgin in this century is 15 to 25 years old.

The minimum age of lose of virgin is 15 years, because, in 15 years, most of the people just become mature enough to understand the possible bad consequences of having a sex and also ready to deal with these consequences ( like unplanned pregnancy or STD ) if they were to happen.

Does it hurt :

The first time, when you have sex, than you either feel hurt or feel good or sometime you may feel both. In some cases, there might be pain and bleeding the first time of sex. Generally it happen when their hymen gets stretched. In rare case, people may need to visit a doctor for a small procedure to open their hymen.

Can you get pregnant :

Yes, you may have pregnant after lose your virgin. Pregnancy can happen when semen (cum) or pre-cum gets into the vagina. It can also happen if cum gets on or near your vulva. 

According to a new survey, about 86% of sexually active women who do not use contraceptives get pregnant within a year. A women can also get pregnant from about 10 days after childbirth and during her menstruation. This happens only due to lack of knowledge. Pregnancy can occurs due to only one tiny sperm.

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Safe sex :  

Safe Sex is a sexual activity that do not allow your body fluids and your partner’s body fluids ( semen, vaginal fluids and blood ) to come into contact with each other. In other words you may say that safe sex means taking precaution during sex to protect yourself and your partner against STIs ( Sexually Transmitted Infections ) and STDs ( Sexually Transmitted Disease ). If you will not talk it serious and will do an unsafe sex, it may lead many diseases like AIDS, Chlamydia, Syphilis e.t.c.

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